Marriage

What is the meaning of marriage???? Why divorce must happen in this marriage relation???Where is wrong and why??? All this while I only see or hear it's happened to someone who not related to me...but now it's happened to someone who are very close to me, and I feel the hurt too, moreover they have 5 kids, so what will happen to them? Are going to separate mean half follow the mother and another half follow the father?

Really pity to the kids, they know nothing and it is not their fault at all. I dont understand why this man still request to his wife to have second wife...really idiot, y cant he think bout his kids..they are still small, y he wanna do tis unfare things to his own blood???? And for the wife I know she will feel really hurt until deep inside her heart, 10 years relation's will be end soon with tears of his wife and his kids..

But the thing that I dont understant, y the husband dont want to let her go (divorce) with reason still love the wife, stupid!!!!!!!! if you love y wanna do all this, dont u know tat ur wife and ur kids will suffer mental and heart....